Bubble Trivia Question # 2: What is the difference between “crazy”
and “eccentric?” (answer at end of article)
The definitive
answer to what a Whole Bubble Off-Level looks like is, “It depends.”
I
know that is not very comforting. We
want definitive answers to our questions about mental health and mental
illness. There are times when the answer
is pretty clear. In the movie “The
Silence of the Lambs” Anthony Hopkins’ character, Hannibal Lecter, was definitely
a whole bubble off-level. At least most
of us would agree that he was.
This is what the problem is. There is a Psychological Truism that
says: “All behaviors can be classified
as either normal or abnormal depending on the setting in which they occur.” Are there any settings in which cannibalism
is normal behavior?
When we look at another person we
are making judgments all of the time..
There are people that we think of as off-level, even if we use a
different term to describe it. “A little
bit odd.” “A lot of emotional
baggage.” “Not playing with a full
deck.” “A screw loose.” If we interact with this person on a regular
basis we learn to make accommodations for the behavior. For example, we know
that Aunt Betty has an irrational fear of dogs.
When she comes to visit we lock Fido in the back bedroom, even though
Fido is the most docile dog in the whole world.
So, most of the time, most people
can function pretty well in society. The
people that know them well make accommodations.
The people that don’t know them well may never bump up against the
off-level behavior
When
these off-level behaviors escalate to the point that they deviate so far from
our social expectations that the person is perceived as no longer able to
relate to others, is in significant distress, or is emotionally disabled we
start thinking of them as a Whole Bubble Off- Level.
There
is more than one official category for Whole Bubble Off-Level behaviors. One of them is Personality Disorder. One of these is Paranoid Personality
Disorder. This disorder is characterized
by irrational suspicions and mistrust of others. A person who believes things like: “The clerks in stores always short-change
me.” “Everybody is out to get me.” The FBI is watching me.” would fall into this
category.
If
a person with Paranoid Personality Disorder comes to the attention of the
mental health profession there will be attempts to help him. Or he may just be labeled “eccentric” and
left alone.
On
the next post we will look at some more Whole Bubble Off-Level disorders.
Answer to Bubble Trivia Question # 2: Often
the answer to that question is – money and social status. A woman who lives in the house built by her
wealthy ancestors, with a trust fund to keep her comfortable, may collect
cats. Her neighbors might label her
“eccentric.” A woman with poor social
connections in a poor neighborhood” hoards” cats, and her neighbors probably
think she is “crazy.”
There you go again--explaining it so clearly! Go, Susan, Go!
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